A tiny Tinder- experiment 😉

Hi ❣Its so nice to see you ,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 💛

I’m still #single,- but I need to admite it had been nice to meet someone, someone that could be a nice #boyfriend. It’s just seems that’s not so easy to meet or find 😊. On the other hand,- I haven’t been looking very #seriously around rather. (….maybe I need to “move” out from my cave first? 😅 … )

It had been nice to have someone “#special” in my #life that also did think I was something “special” for him 😊. Someone to do different things together with. Like a walk at the beach, eat dinner together, watch a movie, just spend a bit time together, giggle a bit together, dream together and a bit more 😊.

It happens if it’s #happen, it would and could be fine,- but I’m not even sure how to do this #dating in a #seriously way anymore😊. Where to meet someone, how to do it 😊 ?

It’s different kinds of #online #dating #webpages,- but does anyone meet someone for a long term and seriously #relationship online? Some, I think,- but that’s a quite few one,- or? I have actually no idea.

I did try out a little, not very serious “#experiment” on #Tinder for just some few days 😊. I did activated my Tinder account and did put in some new photos of my self, and did #change my #text a bit too.

The first days my text was more and less like this “I’m a #happy #norwegian #woman that’s lives and works in Spain. Im #enjoying my life. Im #positive and #realistic, and #romantic too”.

And then it was just for me to push the “like-button” 😊. I don’t remember how many “likes” I did send out to different kinds of men,- but it was a bit 😅. I know I should been counting, unfortunately I forgot 😊. But I did got a lots of “#matches”. I should had counting them too 😊. Anyway it’s not so important,- it was just a tiny, simple and not very serious “experiment” 😊. It was just a bit #fun to do 😊.

Then I did I added some more text to my profile. The “#magic” #words “I’m looking for a seriously relationship”. 😉

And suddenly I just had 3 matches left 😅. What did just happen? 🤔 Well,- obviously it’s not many men around my age ( +/- 10 years up/ down my age ) that’s actually are looking for an seriously relationship,- that’s for sure. Or……. ,- maybe it was me that just didn’t #tempted any of this men to get more acquainted to see if there could be something serious together with me? To get to ( want to ) know me? 🤔

I don’t know,- I just know that the “magic” words “seriously relationship” acted as an eraser and removed most of my matches 😅.

So,- what do you think? Aren’t single men in my age ( +/- 10 ) in general not very interested in a seriously relationship? Or did I, me, and the thoughts of spending to much time together with me scared them away? 😊

It’s fine to be single, Im in general and normally enjoying my own #company ,- but I think it would be even better to be two,- as long as there are a #sweet match on different levels between the two persons and in the #relation 😊.

Anyway,- I think maybe I just leave the dating to next year 😊. We see,- its not something I have many serious thoughts about. But actually it would be fine if he just came riding on his white horse and just picked me up,- like a handsome, gentle, nice, (rich) and very #sweet #prince 😉. It’s allowed to be #dreaming 😊.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 💛 Thank you so much for dropping by today too,- and for #reading my #blog 💛.

See you soon 😊


It is allowed to #dream a bit about #love and #relationship 😊. But is that “dream” of love and #serious #relation for #real on #online #dating ? Im not sure 😊.