Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡.
I’m still not sure what did happen to my tiny little internet last weekend,- but maybe it became a bit “to hot” on the line? 🤔🙄 Not because I’m so “hot”,- it’s a bit cold here in Spain at the moment 😅,- and I haven’t anyone special to be “hot” together with either 😅. And after last weekend’s “hot-line” it felt a bit okay to not “be to hot too” 😅.
I have still this (my) profile on Tinder….and that one got a bit “attention” on Saturday/ Sunday 😳. I’m not use to that, and I don’t know why, – probably it was “the hangover day” for a couple of men? 🙄 My profile is not very special at all,- it’s just me. It’s some few words and a couple of photos on my profile ,- and no bikini- photos either 😅,- all photos are with clothes on 😊. Very ordinary photos actually.
I got 4 different messages from 4 different men in the age between 45 and 60 last weekend. And that was a bit unusual for me/ my Tinder- profile. Also because I’m not very active at Tinder- I do forget to use it. I just get an reminder now and then when there are a new message or two.
But do you know what,- I did actually thought that men in this ( 45- 65) age could manage to behave a bit,- but thise one are the worst one 😅. It’s not strange I’m considering men younger then myself as an partner 😉. They can actually behave well and know how to “treat” a woman 😉.
I’m a bit ashamed over men in age 45 to 65 . I know this is not “all” men in this age,- but a bit to much…..at least that’s my opinion,- and also my experience. I’m not sure what’s going on in some mens head in this age,- but maybe it’s a bit “middle age crisis”? Or maybe they think they behave “young” and “attractive”? And of course there are women in my age that’s like it when men are a bit “easy”, “simple” and starts a conversation based directly on “the act” ( read sex ),- but not a lot 😉.
Of course, this “simple” behavior does not apply to all men in the 45 to 65 age group – and I do not mean to take everyone under “the same comb”, – although it may seem that way in this text. And then I do apologise for that 💙.
But one thing is for sure something happens with mens “brain” in this age- group when it comes to sex and behaviour. Maybe it’s the lack of testosterone? The testosterone level and hormones goes a bit down when a man comes into this middle age face 😊. Like the oestrogen level and hormones does with a women 😊. But it’s a bit slower for a man. They don’t have all this menopause like women have,- but at the same time they have their own “menopause”. And the midlife crisis affects both genders mentally and emotionally – even though it does not affect the physical in the same way.
Anyway,- today is not about the midlife crises or menopause, – it’s about the sex- focus and men, very adult men, mature men who should eventually have learned and not least should know that some types of behavior is a bit not very much “sexy”, or attractive, – to say in a kind way 😊. It’s more a like a big “trun off” than a “trun on”.
So,- then it was over to my “hot line” last weekend 😅.
The first one ( age 58) did asked me about a couple of things,- ” If I was able to cook and give him a child. The child was also something I could “company with”/ have something to do when he was at work”. I told him that my “baby- factory was closing down. Then the next question was “if I did like to have sex many times during the day and in different positions”. Gulp! 😳 I just answer that I was probably not the correct woman for him. But he didn’t stop there,- he invited me to his country ( he was not Spanish), for a date. Would pay my ticket, and if the date went well I could stay in his home for one or two or three weeks. Well,- I didn’t continue the “conversation” with him.
The next one ( age 45) ,- he just asked if I could come home to his home for a drink. I didn’t want that- of course not. To a totally strange man 😳. But I did ask him why we couldn’t meet in a neutral place first time. His answer was “because it’s was more comfortable to meet in his home” . Comfortable for him- because if “something” more should happen it was closer to his bed 😳. I told him that it was not very comfortable for me to meet like that. And he did suggest that I could come to his gate, take a look at him,- and if I didn’t like what I saw I could leave. I did also stopped that conversation.
Then it was another one (age 47) that just sent me this :” Hello beautiful when I come I’m going to make you come 😍😍”. I didn’t respond at that one- totally meaningless for me 😳.
And the last one (age 50) ,- he did sent me a “gift”- “photo- gift” of “what I could expect” 😅. I didn’t respond at that one either. I was not to impress over the “gift” anyway 😅. It was not the “size” I prefer that kind of “gifts” 😉. Just kidding- but just a bit 😊.
So maybe that’s why I went offline on Sunday- it became a bit to much for my “line”? A bit to “hot”? 😉
And- Do men in those age think or believe this is attractive or “sexy”? And do they think they get the attention they actually want? Or,- maybe they just do it for fun? I don’t know why they do it like this- “flirt” or whatever you will call it. And to be honest, – they do get a bit of my attention, but probably not in the way they think,- it became a funny story to tell instead 😅.
I’m not very impressed over this kind of “conversations” or “behaviour” from men in this age group,- and this is, unfortunately, a bit typical for a some men to try to “flirt”, get in connection and the attention to a woman. Normally and in general this is actually not working ,- dear sweet men 😅. But of course it does for some few “lucky ones”.
I can give a few more examples, – like “I m going to give you a night you never will forget”. Yepp,- probably,- if I had care, but also probably not in the way the man had in his mind 😅. And “I’m the best “licker” you have ever tried”. I’m not so sure about that, because I know better what I like then you does 😅. I can continue, – but I let it be with this.
We all like “the act” differently ,- also differently with different partners. What I like to do with someone is not sure I like to do with someone else. ( I thought men in the age 45- 65 did knew this….. they have some ages behind them…and “all” this “experience” they are bragging about too…..the “experience” that I’m not quite sure how they are counting…..😉…..and btw they self do like “the act” different with different partners too…so why should it be any different for a woman?😉).
It’s not the first time I get textes like this from men at Tinder, and I also know it’s like this one other nettdating pages too. Of course I do. But men in the age 45- 65 are actually the one who are “flirting” most like this 😅. Oh my 😅. But like I did mention, – this is not all the men in the age between 45- 65. There are some good guys too 😊.
I hope I haven’t offended anyone today,- that was not my “goal” with today’s post. But if I did,- I’m apologise for that 💙. It’s mainly based on my opinion and my experience, – with a tiny “touch” from what other women has told me too. So it’s not any officially facts- just private experience and opinions 😊.
My “goal” with my post today was to put a bit focus on the behaviour some men in a current age have,- and it’s not just me that get messenger like this,- and we actually don’t like it to much 😊. Its just not very “sexy” or attractive- so it’s just a tiny reminder if a man actually want to meet a woman- behave a bit different then “this” 😊. Even when it became to a one night stand 😊.
And I also did try to use a bit humor for why I did lost my internet connection last Sunday. My “line” became a bit to “hot”, and in a way I didn’t like to much 😅.
Btw,- do you see any “different” from my two posts from yesterday/ today and this evening ? 😊 I’m online again- in my own home 🥰 and can use my brands again 😊.
I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for dropping by my #blog to day too 🧡.
See you soon 😊
Became my “line” “to hot” last weekend? 🔥. Is that the reason why I went “offline”? 😳 …..well I did went a bit “offline” and it was also because of some “to hot for me” online- reasons 😅 😉.