Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡
All is fine here in South of Spain, and it’s even raining a tiny bit, – something that’s good for the nature and atmosphere now 💧. And the atmosphere in my home is also changing a bit after a nice, good and constructive chat 😊. The atmosphere is lightning up a bit in my home 🌤.
It’s not alway easy to take some “difficult” chats, but sometimes it’s actually necessary 😊. Special when someone lives so close up to each other like me, my son and his friend are doing at the moment, and special when we all live in away a bit different lives and have a bit different daily routines and rhythm in the same home and under the same roof at the moment 😊. And special when and because we actually needs to live like this for a few more weeks so this young men have what they need to be able to continue working with their “road trip dream” on their own 😊. And also a bit difficult when to take a seriously chat when I don’t know my sons friend to well, or he knows me to well 😊. But we had a nice chat to day,- all three of us, and things are a bit “lighter” 🌞 to come home too,- and probably for them to get home as well 😅.
We are on different frequencies me and my son’s friend,- at the same time as we manage to find a solution that’s create a better atmosphere for both of us in my home 😊. So that’s feels very nice 🌞. We accept that we are on different frequencies and that we are probably never going to get in the same “frequencies” either. But we can try to get as close as possible, and accept the situation 😊. You can say in a way that we both are like electromagnetic waves, but at each end of the wave spectrum 😊.
He is who he is, and I’m who I’m. He is a more “silent” person, and not to social. And it’s not easy for him to stay in someone else’s home as an young adult in between his dreams and to find a new place to live either 😊. And it’s not easy for me to live with someone I don’t know to well as a mammi and grown up woman that is really ready to “explore” my self and “find” just the “me” in the “mammi- concept”, and also have my own routines in my own home😊. I was “on my way” to “find” more “my rhythm” in my adult life as just “me”, but is “on hold” for a bit. But both of the young adults men here in my home are “on hold” as well, but to be honest, – they are actually much more better then me “to be on hold” 😅.
I think changes are more difficult as older we get. I’m not sure why it is like that,- because we, as adults, should knew “better” when it comes to changes, because of our life- experiences 😊. But that’s not the way it is in general. We don’t like to much changes to fast as older we get. That’s also something I did see at lot when I was working in the home nursery. Different changes was in general not to welcome 😊.
Changes and challenges are a natural part of our life,- either we like it or not. It’s not always easy to just embrace the changes and challenges in a rush and hurry,- but in general and normally they are not to bad when we get use to them 😊.
I hope your day has been a really nice day, with some different lightings into as well,- and with out to many different changes in 🧡.
I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for dropping by my blog today too 🧡.
See you soon 😊.
The atmosphere is lightning up,- even the frequencies are in the different spectrum of the electromagnetic wave 😊. A nice and constructive chat can be good for the changes and challenges in the life now and then 😊.
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