Life is ….changes and challenges- life is actually just “life is” 😊

Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you, – like always 😊. I hope all is fine with you 🧡

It has been over a week since I have been writing. It has never been so many days between my textes since I actually did start writing my blog 😊. So,- it means,- it has never been a week between my textes before 😔,- and I don’t like that. That was not my plan 😔. But,- “life is” and it’s not easy to “control” “the life” because there’s so many outside (and inside) factors that also affect our lives, the days, the weeks, our plans.  After all, we are not alone in this world, and different influences can also make different changes to our own plans.

For me it’s actually not very easy to just sit down and write in peace and quiet when I’m living together with to young adults children/ men. My oldest son and one of his friend. It’s different disturbances evenly over, and I’m a person who both needs time alone to get energy and profits, as well as not too many distractions around me when I’m in “my time, my timout bubble”, both when it comes to what the writing and what the painting gives me. At the moment it’s to many disturbances around me in my home, and I dont “reach” my “timeoutbubble” the way I both want and actually need to “reach” it,- so I have just use what’s left of my energies to focus on my work lately. And my children, – because I don’t just have one child, I have actually three children 😍. My goals and dreams are a tiny bit “on hold”at the moment,- but hopefully I can starting up “my working- process” in my own “life- project” next week again 🥰.

This last week has been “running away” to work, and also helping my son in the middle as well as my daughter too 😊. It’s not just my oldest son that need a “helping hand” from the mammi. In between my two other children needs me as well 😊. So I have been a bit like a jumping ball from one place to another this last week 🥎.

I know every parent that has been in the same “position” and “situation” as I’m in at the moment know exactly what and how it is to live together with your young adults children. It’s actually not easy even the ones that don’t have been in the situation think so 😅. It’s not- it’s a challenge lifestyle and lifesituation,- but you help your child and children as best as you can anyway 😊. That’s a part of the life, that’s a part of being a parent, that’s a part of having children 💚. That’s a bit of “life is….” as a parent 🧡.

“Life is….” also so many other different things,- and at the moment it’s also seems that this coronavirus are “controlling” a tiny bit here and there of our lifes in many places in the world. Here in South of Spain we are still not to “affected” of the different consequences this virus creates, yet, but still slowly we are starting to “feel it on the body” here as well. The world has on it’s own way stopped up a bit now because of the coronavirus. Something that is both natural and in understanding. But also a bit scary. Hopefully it all will goes away as fast as its has coming. Because it did come “all over the world” very fast. I’m still healthy, and as fare as I know, no one at my job, my children or my friends or family has got the virus 😊. I’m not worried to be sick from the virus, but I think it is a bit scary what the virus does with the society at the moment. The society has stopped up in many areas in many places. And that creates not the best consequences and situations for us. Its create changes and challenges. At the same time,- what to do? 🤔

“Life is ….” for me has also been a couple of other things lately. I have manage to “squeeze” in a “fling- meeting”, a “duty- meeting”, and a “let me see- meeting” too 😅. I’m not dating anyone at the moment, and I don’t want to date anyone either at the moment, – that’s for sure 😊. I have learned a couple of things about myself during this time I have been living together with my oldest son 😊. I’m not putting my dreams, goals, wishes, myself or my life on hold for any man anymore, – except from my two sons 💙. A man it’s so fare, as I know and with my experience, not worth it 😊. Not one more time! Been there- done that, and this 4- 6 weeks has given me a good remember about that 😊. I need my dreams and wishes, my goals and myself in my life- that’s much more important for me than a man 🧡. And a man,- in general, he doesn’t put to much of his goals and dreams, work or wishes ” on hold” for anyone,- so why should I do that for a man then ? 🤔

I will come stronger back with my writing when my son and his friend has moved out 😊. And if I have understand everything correctly they are moving out closer to this weekend 😊. Its actually to difficult to get “my time to write” when they are in and out, up and down “all the time” 😊. And when I coming stronger back to my writing,- maybe I even will tell you a bit more about “the fling”, “the duty” and “the let me see” – meetings ?

Today I’m just dropping by in my own way 😊. I could been writing about the women’s day from yesterday and the carnival from last week too,- but I’m actually a bit like an empty box of energy at the moment, and with that means with not to much energies left at all 😊. I’m very tired to be honest. But my energies will come back as well as my textes will too 🧡. I actually just need to live a bit like and eremitt in my cave for a tiny little while when my son and his friend has moved out, and then I can get the “refill” of energies the way that’s best for me to get them back 💚.

I really hope all is fine with you during this coronavirus time 💛. I hope you are healthy and that all this “society stop” don’t affect your life to much 💚.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for dropping by my blog today too 🧡

See you soon 😊 I will try my best to be soon back again 💛.

The mysterious full moon this evening 09.03.2020. Not the best photo, but that’s the way it is sometimes – “life is….” not the best all the time either 😊🌙.

“Life is….” so many different things, and “life is….” like a mysterious full moon in a dark night. It’s lights and darkness, it’s changes and challenges. It’s experiences and opportunities, it’s new wisdom and it’s …. just “life is ….”. I hope all is fine with you during all in this “life is….” that’s are in our society at the moment 💛

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