Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is ok with you during this days, weeks and months we all are going through,- together 🧡
I have broken the curfew rules two times, or actually three times, during the quarantine and curfew we are living with here in Spain 🏡
I’m not “proud” of breaking the curfew rules, but I did break a couple anyway, and the first time I did break the curfew rules I felt was necessary to do it,- for my oldest son. He had forgotten his medicine in my daughter’s apartment, and was empty for medicine in my home. I did drive to my daughter’s apartment, she did dropped off the medicine through the car window when I was driving very slowly,- and I also got the possibility to give her a hug 🥰. That was not to allowed to do.
The second time I did break the curfew rules was actually not very necessary. I should actually just give our Playstation and different Playstation games to my daughter so she had something to do during this “inside” days, weeks and months. She is also working, and she is living together with her boyfriend at the moment,- but it can still be very long days to just be inside.
The “procedure” was more and less like the first time. I had all packed in a bag, I did drive very slowly so she could pick the bag up through the car door this time, – and it was also given a quick hug this time too. This was either not to allowed to do, not either to necessary. But for a mammi- heart it was.
My third time I did break the curfew rules was when I did walk my oldest son’s dog. Not because I did walked his dog. He was at the hospital so I did walked the dog “legal”,- but I did take a 30 minutes walk instead of the legal 15 minutes. And to be honest,- I did enjoy every second of the walk,- even my mind was with a bit mixed feelings because my son was at the hospital 💙.
Today I did meet my son in the middle 🥰,- without breaking any curfew rules 😊. He needed to go to the hospital for a check, and I needed to drive him. We did everything “correct”. All the paper we needed to have with us was in order, and he did sit back in the car, on the opposite side then mye- the driver. As he should do after the curfew rules. And we both had gloves and also cover over our nose and mouth 😊. The not to “legal” thing we actually did was give each other a big hug when I was driving him back to his apartment 🥰. And he did got his cake as well. The Princess- cake/ Prince- cake I made to him on Sunday/ yesterday 🎂.
It was so incredibly good to see him again, talk with him, just be with him, spends tiny little hour together with him 🥰. I haven’t met him since 20. March when I did drive 2 computer screens to him, and also gave him and his friends knit cover for their noses and mouths 😷.
We manage to have a good chat the little hour we was together today 😊. And he is also going to move back to me….in the end of June. Suprice 😅. I was not to supriced,- I know their rental contract for the apartment they are renting ends in the end of June. So I did have this in my mind that maybe he also was coming back home for a tiny little while 😊.
So,- “my time” is obviously not quite “there” yet 😅. I will probably live on my own one month before my daughter is moving in in the end of May, and then my son in the middle are coming the month after 😊.
His plan is to live here for some months, do his work and job, save up some money and move back to Norway 😳. I did felt it a bit in my heart and stomach when he told me this today, about his moving- plans back to Norway. At the same time I can totally understand him and why he wants to move back to Norway now. He is ready and motivated for new changes and challenges in his life,- and this changes and challenges are best for him to do in Norway at the moment 😊.
I also have a tiny little feeling that it’s a just matter of time before my daughter also will get some “moving back to Norway” plans. And that’s the life, a part of growing up, live on their own, be adults 💚. I just need to get use to this things and thoughts, – one thing is to not want to live together with my children anymore just because they are actually young adults 😊. An other thing is to still have them around me, in a way “just around the corner”, but just in their own apartments, and still with the possibility to see them and meet them “anytime”. When they’re moving back to Norway I can’t meet them “all the time” anymore 😊. When all that’s said,- I have actually been really lucky so have had, and at the moment still have, the possibility to live so close to my young adults children ❤. That’s not for everyone to have, or has that possibility. I just need to get use to the feelings and thoughts that some of my children, or even maybe all 3 of them, are going to move to other places then South of Spain. And there’s “a bigger ocean” “out there” for them to follow their dreams and wishes in and for their own lifes then it is for them here in South of Spain at the moment ❤ 💙. That’s just the way it is 😊,- and this is also “the life” 💚.
And my oldest son ( and his friend) are, after the plan, going to move to the mountains, around one hour driving trip from here. There they are going to live on a tiny little finca togetherwith two cats and a dog, and their dream is to start building on their own caravans. Or more correctly, – pay one caravan each, build it up the way they want it, and travel/ drive around “in the world” 🚌 🌏. I hope they will manage to follow their dreams, and I’m happy they didn’t started on “the building- process” when they was living here. That would been a very big challenge for them during this Corona- and Covid19 time.
And what am I going to do? Move back to Norway too? I have no idea at the moment 😊. I have no idea what will happen in my future 😊. At the moment I’m going to be and stay here I’m,- and then we see what life brings me 😊.
Anyway,- it was lovely to see and meet my son in the middle today 🥰 ,- and also in a legal way 💚.
Have you broken any quarantine- or curfew rules during this time we all are living in? In case what? And why?
Hopefully our quarantine and curfew time will soon be over 😊 ,- and we can live by some more easier rules and more legal socializing together with family and friends 💛. To say our life will go back to “normal” after this, well,- that’s not going to happen. There will be a new “normal” after this Corona- crisis, a new “normal” we don’t know to much about at the moment 💜.
I’m sending you a lots of good thoughts 🧡. I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for dropping by my blog today too 🧡
See you soon 😊
I did have a legal and lovely meeting today 🥰. And I’m looking forward to our quarantine and curfew rules will be a bit “easier” and give us a bit more possibility to meet up with family and friends 😊. To say our life will go back to “normal” after this, well,- that’s not going to happen. There will be a new “normal” after this Corona- crisis, a new “normal” we don’t know to much about at the moment 💜
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