Thank you October, a month spiced up with the life 🧡. Welcome November, with your winter sparks 🧚‍♀️

Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡

October is already over, the time just fly away in a year that at the same time feels like have in it’s own way been standing still.

2020 has been a very strange year for most of us. The time has come and the time has gone, but without to much daily, weekly or monthly “events”, at the same time there’s a lots of different things that’s happen in the world.

We live our lifes, at the same time as things feels a bit like they are both put on hold and standing still. But the days goes by any way, with small or bigger “life- events”. And it’s just 2 months left before this year is over.

My October has been “filled up ” with a bit more of “the life” then the others months this year. It has been joy and happiness, friends and family, sadness and worries, thoughts and acts, feelings both good and not so good. Laugh and a couple of tears as well 💛.

My daughter moved out in the beginning of this month, and together with her boyfriend. In the end of this month I moved back home to “my corner”, and I’m going to continue working fulltime for my home again.

I have felt on sadness both because my children are all young adults and a period in my life are over. As well as I have felt in sadness because a friend from my teenages years did passed away.

I have felt on joy and happiness because I’m standing infront of on a new epoch in my life, as well as this new epoch in my life also scares me a bit.

I have felt on joy and happiness because I have met most of my friends here in South of Spain during October. I haven’t been able to meet to many of my friends before during this year. But during October I have spent some great time together with most of my friends. I have a couple more to spend time together with before Spain goes maybe into a new lock down. Hopefully I will manage that in November 😊.

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I have felt on sadness because I needed to break someone’s heart a tiny little bit, because I’m not “ready” for “all and everything” at the moment, and because I didn’t had the “correct” feelings, and because I knew it was not correct for no one uf us to continue “the relation” or dating. It’s not good to hurt someone even it’s a “necessary” act sometimes.

I have been chatting with my son in the middle that lives in Norway at the moment, and he did share the good news that he also have got a job in Norway, even a fulltime job. He also became 23 year in October, and it was the second time in our life we didn’t celebrate his birthday together 🎊.

My oldest son has visit me once a week, he has even been able to buy his “dream car” 🚘 Not a caravan, that dream is put on hold for a while. The situation in the country and the world is not for any caravn- life at the moment.

I have been visiting my daughter and her boyfriend in Malaga too. Even turned their apartment “upside down ” with re- organize their furniture so it felt a bit more like a home, as well as became a bit more practical for them to live together in 🏠.

I have been thinking a lot about the new epoch and the new start line I feel I’m standing on in my life. Where to start? What to do? How to do it? What can I expect? I have tried to make some plans. And try to remind myself about “one or two steps at the time” is probably the best solutions, even I sometimes feel I want to jump over all the steps, and just be in the other end,- where I know more and less the answers to my questions 😊. But the life is to go the steps. Even I know some of them can be a bit challenged to go through.

The lifesituation in my life has changed as well as in the Spanish society. We have got some new restrictions to follow, and borders between the different provinces in Spain are closed now. For how long,- I don’t know.

I feel my October has been “spiced up” with “the life”. There has been happiness and joy, friends and family, but also sadness and thoughts about the life. There has been sunshine and rain, laughter and tears.

Thank you October for “the life”, for the laughter and tears, the changes and the challenges, for friends, family and joyful moments 💛. Thank you October for showing me “the life” the gentle way you did. I’m grateful for every moment 🧡.

November has just “arrived”. It’s getting colder, but the sun is still shining and gives us nice and warmy days. But the mornings, evenings and nights are colder now. I’m going to be working from me home fulltime. I’m going to live alone and on my own fulltime, as well, maybe even live alone during a new lock down, and with stricter curfew then we have at the moment. I think I will manage to do that, but it will be a change from last fulltime curfew we lived through this Spring.

My daughter is going to be 20 years old in November, and we can’t celebrate her with a big party. She can only celebrate her birthday with maximum 6 people at the same time. Maybe she can have a three or four days of celebration then? Just changing out the guests? 😊

I think November will bring some changes in life, but I think this month will be a bit quite month with not to much ups and downs, more work and focus, meet up with my friends and family now and then when we are allowed to meet up. Hopefully there will not be a new and stricter curfew, but we don’t know that yet. I think for me the changes in my life during November will be to live alone, work alone and be able to get more focus on my own plans in my life.

The borders into Andalucia are now closed down with 500 check points. For how long? I don’t know. I only know we are allowed to move around in Andalucia at the moment between 06.00 in the morning to 23.00 in the evening. So at the moment I know I’m still allowed to see and meet my children and my friends during the allowed time. But I’m not allowed to travel outside the borders.

I’m Welcoming you, November with your winter sparks and still some touch of both summer and autumn 🍂🍃. I don’t know what you will bring, but I think it will be a quiet month with a lots of focus at work, and hopefully some great moments together with my children and my friends. Maybe there will be some more curfew with stricter rules to follow? Maybe Spain will close down the border again? It’s just to wait and see what’s happen, what I do know is that I m not allowed to walk outside from my home between 23.00 and 06.00 from now and until 9. May 2021. This can of course change, but at the moment this is the way it is.

Thank you October for all the great memories and moments of “the life” 🧡. Welcome to November with your winter sparks, but still a touch of both summer and autumn 🍃🍂.

I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for using your time and dropping by my blog today 🧡

See you soon 😊.

Thank you October for all the great memories and moments of “the life” 🧡. Welcome to November with your winter sparks, but still a touch of both summer and autumn 🍃🍂.

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