Hi ❣ It’s so nice to see you,- like always 😊 I hope all is fine with you 🧡
Today it’s 23 year since I became a mammi for my son in the middle 💙. Imagine, – he is already 23 years old. A young and wonderful man 🥰. My son, my love, my proud, and one of my three most valuable treasures in my life ❤.
This year I have no possibility to celebrate his birthday together with him, and no possibility to bake his favourite chocolate cake 🎂. And this is actually “just” the second time in our life we are not together at his birthday.
This year he is in Norway, and he’s probably going to be there for a tiny little while too. The coronavirus is one of the main reason why we are not together this year. The coronavirus is one of the reasons for many not to good things in the world at the moment.
I really miss my son in the middle. I miss him every single day, but maybe a bit more today then other days 💙. And I have no idea when I’m going to see him again,- but I know it will not be this year 😔.
I still remember the moment I got him at my stomach after giving birth to him. A lovely little boy, so sweet, so wonderful, and I couldn’t stop hugging him, and kissing him, and looking at him 🥰. My oldest son was so proud too, he was suddenly a big brother to a little brother. And those two boys became very good friends as well, when they did grow up 😊. And they did many different things together at the same time as they had different interests and areas where they had their own friends and hobbies 😊.
I was a bit worried that my son in the middle and my daughter never should be friends at all,- but they are the best friends now 🥰. All the time when we have been living in Spain he has looking after his little sister as the most precious treasure 😍. Even when it came to my daughter’s boyfriends he has been very critical for who was good enough for his little sister 😅. So critical that ny daughter not always wanted him meet her boyfriend 😅.
And for some weeks ago, when I did help my daughter to move to her own apartment (and her boyfriend’s apartment too), my daughter told me that my children have already created a tiny bit of “taking care and looking after mammi- plan”. A plan for who is going to do what and when, and take care of me and look after me when I’m going to be older, so old that I will need a bit more help from them. A plan that was my son in the middle’s idea 🥰. Imagine that, my amazing children have already thought about my “older days”.
I was so impressed and so filled up with even more love for my children at that moment ❤. And I think my daughter told me this when I was driving the car so I shouldn’t start crying. But I did start cry, at the same time I needed to be calm down,- because I had some very valuable with me in my car,- my daughter 🧡.
I’m always going to remember that day my son in the middle was born (as well as I’m always going to remember the two other days I became a mammi for my oldest son and my daughter.) There are some days in life, so incredibly special that it’s not possible to forget them. And this day, 23 years ago, is just a day like that 🥰. My son in the middle’s birthday 💙.
He was a lovely baby and a charming child. He has been an incredible easy teenager too. Of course he did a couple of things and stuffs he shouldn’t do, but who hasn’t done that? 😊
He is a young and fantastic man now, and he have some goals in life he want, wish and work for to reach. And I know he will reach them all, but in his own way 😊.
I have been so lucky that I have been living together with my son in the middle for some time this year,- and had the possibility and pleasure to see what a great young and responsible young man he is. He did help out as good as he could, at the same time as he did enjoy the time to have his mammi around him for taking care of him too. For a maybe last time.
We have even been working together at the same office this year, even had home office together for a while 😊. And we did drive together to work this summer, closely every day 🚗.
I have been so lucky, I have so much to be grateful for ❤. It’s not for all and every parent to spend time like this together with their young adults children 💙.
I wish him all the best for his 23 years birthday, and I hope he have an fantastic and fabulous time together with his friend and family “up there in the north ” 🎂🎁💙.
I wish him all the best in life, both in work and love, knowledge and experiences 🧡. And as his mammi I actually haven’t strong enough words to describe who much I love him,- unconditional ❤.
I wish you a great day or evening wherever in the world you are 🧡. Thank you so much for using your time and dropping by my blog today 🧡
See you soon 😊.
Today it’s 23 year since I became a mammi for my son in the middle 💙. A day I’m going to remember “forever”, an amazing day 🥰. I’m so proud of him, and I’m so incredibly grateful for being his mammi, mammi to the best son in the middle in the world 🥰. My love to him is unconditional ❤. I wish him all the best, must all his good dreams and wishes be fulfilled 💙❤
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