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In the middle of the life,- like around 40- 50 years many of us are going through a kind of midlife crisis and a kind of “new” puberty. In general men are going through it between the age of 40- 60, and women 45- 55.
The testosterone level slows down in a man’s body during this period, and the man is going through his “own” menopause. For women the menopause is a around 5 years period, and the oestrogen levels slows down, and that a bit faster then in a man’s body too, and it happens in between the age of 45 and 55. But of course this can various from woman to woman, and man to man.
And yes,- the hormones can have a tiny habit to jump a bit around, like they did when we was teenagers. The differents are probably that most of us are a bit better to control the jumping hormones, but not all of us, and not all the time 😊.
The body and health to both men and women are changing during this period in life. But also the mind in a way. It’s like we are having and taking a kind of status in and about our life. And this is actually an universal “problem”,- if we can call it a problem. Actually it is more like a challenge- is maybe a bit better word,- for many, both men and women. To go through this “updated status in life”.
The “status in the life period” in life is about thoughts around what they, or we, because I’m “one of many” here as well, we have manage to do, to complete in our life. It’s about dreams and wishes which has not been fulfilled, about lost youth, and a frightening and unknown old age, a feeling of not reaching, lack of happiness, depression, emptiness, a feeling of not reaching, and whether one has children – the children who move out, and a home that feels empty.
And then a “new process” in away are starting. “To find yourself” in this new epoch in life.
What to do now? Where to go? How to do this? Are there any new goals to reach? Is the life over? What to expect from now and into this new epoch and phase in life? How to manage this “new life”? The questions can be many,- and the answers? Well,- they will probably drop by little by little when we start walking into this new epoch in our life. But it’s also good to have a tiny little plane or two, for the next “level in life”.
Many men, Mr. MC, are trying to “find” their lost youth during buying a new and fancy car, or big MC, and also a young and to meet up with a sweet mistress, or maybe find a much younger girlfriend. It’s like a kind of “compensation” for something that is over in their life. And many men start to take care of their health as well with both exercises and eat more healthy food.
Many women, Mrs. Buddha, react a bit differently then this. Instead of find a kind of “compensation” for what’s over in life, thet try to “find them self” during meditation and different mindfulness techniques, exercises and classes. They are trying to find “peace” in the soul and mind that are changing. But also they start with different exercises as well as healthy food.
Mr. MC and Mrs. Buddha are something we can joke about, the age, the process, the different changes and acts,- and I think it is a bit important to be able to try to look at all this changes with some “smiley- glasses” too. Even it is a very hard time for many,- special mentally. That’s important to remember as well.
Many do a lost of strange things during this “new puberty” in life, and act strange too. And the thing is, – it’s actually very normal for many people during this period in life to change habits and behavior. Not always to the best, but the first puberty in our life, we also did made some strange things and stuff for finding our place in life 😊.
We can laugh about Mr. MC, but for many men this are their way to find a solution during a challenge and difficult time in life. To buy this motorcycle or fancy car. Or be very healthy, and do the exercises as well. And it is actually nothing wrong with that.
It’s actually nothing wrong to find a younger girlfriend either, or change habits and behaviour,- as long as it’s a good thing for them self, and they don’t hurt anyone else.
To be divorced during this period in life is also very natural. Suddenly there’s not very much that “connect” two adults people together anymore. The children has moved out, life is changing, things are changing, the lifesituation is changing. And it’s not always easy for a couple to be able to connect their different changes together during this period in life. Many couples manage to find their way out of this, and get a new connection together, and many couples split up.
I feel in my own way lucky when it comes to this “couple- area- challenge” in a new epoch in life. I don’t need to find a new connection to a boyfriend or husband. Something I’m at the moment, happy and relieved over. I just need to “find” or “meet” a boyfriend when I’m a bit more ready for this in my life. I can go through this changes on my own, something that feels very correct for me to do.
I know I’m more like Mrs. Buddha at the moment. In my own way I’m thinking and reflecting about different things in my life, trying to find and see solutions. Trying to find my own “peace in life”, my own way to walk in this new area and epoch in life. It’s not easy, it’s actually a bit confusing to be honest. But okay,- that’s the way it is 😊. I think, for me, it’s just better to accept that I don’t have “all the answers” to all my questions “in life”. Just walk one step at the time, easy and slowly, and try to do the best of it all. And I think I will find the answers little by little when I’m finding my way, here in the midlife 😊.
And I, in my own way, like to be in this Mrs. Buddha area,- it feels a bit relaxed and peaceful in its own way ⛩. I’m glad I don’t have this “need” for a fancy car or a big motorcycle, or a young boyfriend. For me that seems to be a bit stressful 😊.
I’m not sure if you feel the same,- like a Mr. MC or like a Mrs. Buddha when you’re in the menopause and midlife,- but I really hope you are in your own way, happy 😊. Because it is not the best “phase” in life to go through or be in, and we actually do not like to talk to much about it either,- how we are feeling “in the middle of the life”. At the moment I feel good to be here I’m in my life, yes,- it’s still scary,- and it’s very, very “new” all this “new epoch in life”, and it’s still very confusing too, and I have not a clue about what or where or when or how ,- but I’m fine 😊.
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See you soon 😊.
Many men in the midlife becomes a bit like Mr. MC, and feel that a fancy car or a big motorcycle can compose for the “lost youth” 🛵. Many women in the midlife find their own peace in “Mrs. Buddha”,- trying to “find themselves” during meditation and mindfulness ⛩. The midlife can feels a bit like a second puberty in life,- the hormones are changing, the life is changing, and we are trying to find a new way to live it 😊. And it can actually both be scary and confusing this new “hormones dance” in the middle age body and mind 🛵⛩.
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